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An Oak Tree That “Speaks” to Me

An Oak Tree That “Speaks” to Me

I reached a milestone the other day that’s admittedly a pretty small one and no one would likely know, think or care much about it other than me. Well, I guess now you’re going to know about it.

Recently I had yet another minor (is there such a thing?) surgery to address an issue that has made it difficult for me to walk without discomfort for about the past six months. Was this issue directly or indirectly the result of cancer treatment fallout? Maybe. Maybe not. But in my mind probably.

And in the end, no one else’s mind truly matters does it?

In addition to physical therapy, part of my recovery process has been walking down the street in my neighborhood. I’ve been following doctor’s orders and slowly increasing the distance each day. It’s hard to be patient and increase this distance in tiny increments. I want to get back to my regular walking routine sooner rather than later. But…

Anyway, the other day I finally made it to the point in my walk where I pass a certain oak tree. This is just an ordinary oak tree, but then again it isn’t. This is a special one because for some reason, it “speaks” to me. Most oak trees with their twisted branches, peculiar contortions and lumpy knots have plenty to say, but this one has always had special things to say to me alone.

It feels good to pass by this oak tree again on my daily walks. I’ve missed hearing what it has to say. Things like:

“It’s good to see you again.

You made it this far!

Even though I’m stuck out here in the middle of this cornfield, I’m still standing too.

Yes, I’m stripped down and have no leaves, but I’m still rather lovely – even against gray November skies.

I’m one of a kind.

I’m strong.

I’m resilient.

Another winter will pass and I will still be here come spring.

I am reliable.

There’s no need to be perfect; in fact, my imperfections make me what I am.

I’ll be here tomorrow and the day after that…”

I don’t know why this particular tree speaks to me, but I’m glad it does.

Do you have a special place or piece of nature that “speaks” to you on a regular basis?

If so, what does it say? (If you care to share of course)

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An oak tree that speaks to me

 

 

Kathi

Sunday 29th of November 2015

I always think that trees are what make walks worthwhile. I'm glad you're recovering. Hope you don't need any more surgery ever! xoxo

Nancy

Monday 30th of November 2015

Kathi, I agree. Trees are what make walks worthwhile, or at least they make walks way more enjoyable for many reasons. And I hope I don't need any more surgeries too. Ever. xo

Cancer Care

Wednesday 18th of December 2013

Nice Story.

Nancy

Wednesday 18th of December 2013

Empowered Doctor, Thank you!

Beth Gainer

Wednesday 20th of November 2013

Nancy,

The oak tree is, indeed, beautiful. I love the metaphor -- all the things the oak tree "says" are things we would like to say and believe.

Any little milestone is a big milestone. I'm glad you were able to reach the oak tree!

For me, it's the Smoky Mountains. I've done guided imagery exercises incorporating the images of the mountains before surgery. It helps to have a personal relationship with nature.

Great post!

Nancy

Thursday 21st of November 2013

Beth, You got my hidden messages then! I agree. Sometimes the little milestones aren't really so little after all. I'm glad you have a special connection to the Smoky Mountains. Nature is so healing and calming. I think it's helpful to find pieces of Mother Nature's beauty close to home too, maybe even in our own backyards. Thanks so much for reading and commenting, Beth.

Lindsay

Wednesday 20th of November 2013

That really is a beautiful oak tree. I've walked by it several times without really noticing it much.

Can you go on multiple short walks per day?

Nancy

Wednesday 20th of November 2013

Lindsay, I think it's quite lovely and on the day I took that photo, it looked extra spectacular against the gray November sky. Yes, I can go on multiple shorter walks. It's hard to get out the door too many times though... Right now I'm doing the treadmill for a short time and then the one walk outdoors. And of course, I have all my PT exercises. Thanks for reading and commenting.

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