20 Blogging Tips!

Sometimes people ask me for blogging tips, so I thought I’d share some in this post. It’s not like I’m an expert by any stretch of the imagination, but in over four years of blogging, I have learned a thing or two. Sometimes it’s hard to just get started. Believe me, I know. I am one of the world’s finest procrastinators. So I hope I can be that little nudge to help someone out there get started.

If you’re a blogger, I’d love to hear your blogging tips. If you’re a blog reader, I’d love to know what you think, too, ‘cuz a blog without readers can get lonely. Nothing motivates bloggers like having readers!

 1.  Unsure about how to get started? Well, who isn’t/wasn’t? Just get started!

Sometimes the best way to get set up mechanics-wise is to ask for help. Get a tech-savvy family member or friend to help you, or else do some web surfing and learn as you go. Two most commonly used platforms are Blogger and WordPress. Or sign up for an online course such as, Should I blog?

 2.  Determine what your goals are.

Do you care about readership numbers? Do you want to monetize your blog? Do you see yourself blogging in one year, two years or further down the road? Are you blogging primarily as an outlet for yourself? Is your focus advocacy work? What do you want to accomplish through blogging?

 3.  Pick a topic and a name for your blog that fit with your goals.

Pick a title for your blog that suits the niche you want to be part of and clearly suggests what your blog is about. Be sure to choose a niche that you can be passionate about for the long haul. Brainstorming with family or friends can be helpful. Or not. Depends on your family and friends I guess.

 4.  Ask yourself, who do I want to read my blog? 

This helps you focus on what your content will be and it’s related to #2, but it’s important and worth its own number slot. Determine your audience and then write for them. You can’t please everyone anyway, so choosing your target readers makes things easier and gives you focus.

  5.  Always post original content.

If you share quotes or content others have written, you must give credit. Treat other writers (yes, bloggers are writers) with the same respect you wish to be given. This goes for images and videos too.

 6.  Publish posts consistently, if you can.

I do once a week. When I started, I did two, but that schedule became too grueling and therefore not fun. Once a week works perfectly for me. Well, most of the time. Some bloggers do daily (though how I do not know), some do weekly, others do monthly. Do what works for you, but readers tend to fade away if you go too long between posts, at least in the beginning.

 7.  Comment on other blogs.

This is an absolute must, especially in the beginning. I call it the cardinal rule of blogging. And try not to just say things like, great post. Take time to write a comment specific to the post content, otherwise it looks like you didn’t even read it. And generally, it’s not a good idea to leave a link to your blog in a comment unless the blogger has specifically encouraged this in the post or it seems appropriate to do so. Reading their blog isn’t about you. Well, it kind of is, but you know what I mean, right?

 8.  Share quality images whenever you can.

Again, use original images of your own or from creative commons (non-copyrighted images available) sites. When using photos or images other than your own, always give credit. Check out sites like Canva for creating designs and upgrading your photos. That’s what I use.

 9.   Be sure you check for spelling and grammar errors and then check again.

No need to fret about perfection, but do proof read. Several times.

10.  Keep a notebook handy at all times for when those blog post ideas pop into your head.

I like to keep a notebook or a notebook section just for writing down blog post ideas. Writing them down right away is super important because I don’t know about you, buy my memory is not what it used to be. I often have great ideas in the shower and by the time I get out, I have forgotten what they were. So, the sooner you write them down the better.

11.  Reading other blogs is a great way to get ideas for what to write about.

Never copy, but you can certainly express your thoughts and opinions on the same topic, and be sure to link back to the blog post that inspired you when you do.

12.  Encourage discussion, even disagreement, by validating all viewpoints.

After all, it’s nice to learn what those who disagree with you think, isn’t it? I actually love it when a good debate gets going in the comments. Respect is a two-way street, and I’ve only had to delete two or three comments over the years due to the disrespectful (in other words name calling) tone. I always try to validate the opinions of others, even when they don’t mesh with mine. 

13.  A social media presence isn’t mandatory, but it’s helpful. Starting an email list is a good idea too. 

I blogged for six months without being on Facebook or Twitter. But once I jumped onto the social media bandwagon, it was a whole lot easier to share and have my posts be shared. But don’t try to be everywhere on social media or you’ll go crazy and/or get nothing else done. At all. Trust me. I know. Try to use image sizes the sites prefer. For example, Pinterest likes ’em big and vertical, which is why you might have noticed I’ve been updating some of my images. 

After a few years in, I also started an email list. This way subscribers have access to all your posts. You and readers have control, not Facebook and other social media venues. (I should write a post about this sometime – where’s my notebook?)

14.  Don’t worry about word count.

I have read that longer posts do better on Google. Then again, I’ve heard the opposite is true too, so yeah, don’t fret about how long your post is or isn’t. Like usual, quality matters more than quantity. And sometimes less is more. I am always working on trying to be less wordy.

15.  Determine your boundaries.

Don’t share every detail of your life, cancer or otherwise, but do get personal, at least once in a while. Readers love personal stuff. They want to know the person behind the words. I want my readers to know me. I want to get to know my readers. Blogging is a two-way exchange.

16.  Have fun with it.

If you start stressing out too much, what’s the point?

17.  Share. Share. Share.

There are some popular bloggers out there who never share what others write, but I think it’s poor blogging etiquette to never share what others write via your Facebook, Twitter or other accounts. Blogging is all about community and that means sharing.

18.  Provide a mix of content so your readers never know what’s coming next and you won’t get bored either.

I try to write personal experience posts, news-type posts and informational posts. Also, the name Nancy’s Point gives me “permission” to write about whatever I darn please. Not that I need permission. You don’t either.

19.  When I feel hesitant about posting something personal (and I have many times), I remember the words of my online friend, Jackie Fox, author, blogger.

Jackie once told me, “Nancy, don’t ever be afraid to write what’s in your heart.” Best writing advice ever (thanks, Jackie).

20.  Finally, if you stay true to yourself and share your cancer truths (or whatever your genre is), you can’t go wrong.

In the blogoshpere that I know and love, no one is looking for perfection, but they are looking for genuine-ness. So be that. Be genuine.

Be real. Be you. It’s enough. It always is.

So, go ahead and share your story. Start blogging!

Because everyone’s story matters, including yours.

If you’re a blogger, what tips do you have?

If you want to start a blog, what questions do you have?

If you’re a blog reader, what suggestions do you have?

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20 thoughts to “20 Blogging Tips!”

  1. Hi, Nancy.

    Thank you so much for this post. I must admit, I’m guilty of not commenting as much as I want to, and then ‘complaining’ about blogging into a vacuum. My suggestion for new bloggers is simple, and probably also common sense. Make sure you have a topic in which your interest is sustained, and sustainable. I’m sure it’s perfectly possible to tell when a writer isn’t enjoying their blog any more – either by the silence or by the tone of the posts.

    Take care,


    1. Casey, good point about having a topic you can sustain. My topic has been all over being hurt and ignored by the indifferent treatment I’ve received from the cancer care providers. And now with my last treatment I’d love to crawl under a rock for being such a jerk. Yet how cool is it to escape from the moment and make a list of what I did wrong in the self-righteous grip of illness? Will check out your poetry and the mention of the vacuum where I see I’ve put myself.
      Nancy, I’d like to add the need to show movement in your situation. Obsessing on the same thing is unproductive to everyone and sometimes being wrong and admitting it can heal and release a whole new string of topics. Fear of contradiction is really quite boring.

      1. Scott, I agree it’s probably not a good idea to keep obsessing on the same thing. As I’ve mentioned before, admitting when you’re wrong is healing and most readers are quite understanding. Thanks for your thoughts.

    2. Casey, Probably none of us comments as much as we want to. There is always that time constraint issue. I think your suggestion is vitally important. It is essential to have a topic which will sustain your interest and passion. And your insights about silence and tone are probably quite accurate. Thank you for reading and adding your tip.

  2. Nancy, today is a fitting day for me to see your post. It was three years ago today that I started my own blog “Habitual Gratitude.” Amazing things have happened in terms of how the posts and the regular writing have helped me. If my blog has helped others, that is icing on the cake. And it is what continues to inspire and motivate me to write on.
    I did learn a valuable lesson in humility early on. I was worrying about how many people were seeing my blog and whether or not people commented. Then I realized how much my blog was helping ME and I stepped back from expectations. My message to myself has been “Just keep doing what you are doing.” There is much value in posting regularly and having a topic I am passionate about. Over 970 posts later, I haven’t run out of ideas. I know there is plenty more I could be doing as a blogger, but my time is limited and this is working for me. Slowly, I have also built a wider reader base.To know my words reach and inspire others makes all the difference. I am grateful that the blogosphere helped us cross paths and your blog is one that I read regularly and have high regard for. Thank you!

    1. Lisa, Well three years ago today – congratulations! And over 970 posts later, that is truly impressive. You’re so right about how blogging helps the blogger. I feel the same way. But you also reach others and I love how you inspire every day with your words of habitual gratitude. Thank you for reading and sharing and for your ongoing support. I appreciate it.

  3. Nancy – Thank you for the great tips.

    I personally have a hard time keeping my posts short. I tend to write a lot because I feel I have too much inside I need to let out. I am still viewing my blog as a therapist and sometimes forget readers might like shorter posts. But what I would like to know is, is there a difference when it comes to the theme of the blogs? For instance, when it comes to health blogs I enjoy reading long posts, especially cancer blogs. I like the details and enjoy all the emotions that come with the words been expressed because I can relate to them a lot of the times. I guess my point is some themes require more expressions than others? Or not.

    I am also starting to notice that my comments on other blogs may be too long. This is a reason why I don’t comment on all the blogs I know of because it takes time to read and it also takes time to process and be able to comment. I def. write with my heart.

    I am new to blogging and don’t have any feedback except what everyone else tells me:

    1) Don’t ever feel the need to apologize for your opinion – However, I tend to be careful with what I write before I hit the “publish” button. And I always think of other cancer patients. (Hard when the topic is sensitive. May be easier if it was a “food recipe” blog.)
    2) Be open to other perspectives and welcome them.
    3) Although I believe I must have a goal with my blog, I do enjoy the spontaneity of my posts. Sometimes I just want to write about how I feel on that day or what I am experiencing, even if it is not directly connected to the theme of my blog. It also gives readers a variety. (My blog is relatively new and am not sure where it’s heading..)
    4) Empathy is an important ingredient, I find, when it comes to blogging. Maybe because “cancer” is the theme for mine.
    5) Not everyone has to agree with your perspectives. That’s OK.

    These are my two cents.

    Have a great weekend, Nancy.

    1. Rebecca, I tend to run long in my comments I feel like they are generating new ideas and bringing up that feeling of a long sweet conversation. Now that I’m trying to escape the listing of complaints mode, I’m not sure how to proceed but the material will come. Burned a lot of bridges in moments of stress so I’ll have to swim some rivers back to do some fixing though I don’t necessarily feel regrets for being in those moments. Wonder if guilt falls away when things get intense and like you say “how I feel on that day”?

    2. Rebecca, Sometimes I think my posts tend to be too long as well. I am working on that… Thanks for sharing your two cents. I especially appreciate your
      #4. Cancer blogging really is about empathy and validation. And of course expressing our opinions is another vital reason for blogging. I’m glad you’ve entered the blogosphere. I look forward to reading more of your posts. Thanks for reading and commenting on this one.

    1. Marie, Thank you so much for your comment. Coming from you makes it extra special. And you are a fine example of one who supports others by sharing and sharing some more.

  4. These are the best tips I’ve ever heard for beginning bloggers. I couldn’t agree more.

    If one is health blogging, it’s important to think through the consequences of a health condition made public. While it shouldn’t matter and may even be illegal, the truth is that a prospective employer may discriminate. I also think that people need to be aware that there is no way to keep your identity secret- if somebody really wants to find you they can. While it’s unlikely to ever be a problem, it’s a good idea to think it through.

    Great tips!

    1. Ann, good point about “consequences of a health condition made public.” They can appear from odd places too. At the bottom of the print-out of my file filled out at every medical interview and just above the notes space it says: Anxiety and Depression and I’ve noted these words set interviews off in the wrong direction. Decisions are made on how I’m to be treated right there and as these words loom over the interview space they just won’t go away.
      Since I’m not ashamed of these conditions (a family ‘tradition’ that I grew up with) I can talk about them but they silence or confuse others. Strangely, doctors seem more comfortable, maybe because they are GPs? Oncologists on the other hand immediately point out they don’t treat mental problems and can be surprisingly intolerant of “feelings”–NOT ALL OF THEM!
      Guess what I’m saying is there is really no escaping this problem but to be open and accept that misunderstandings will happen. You can always fall back on, “I also have trouble with authority–can I speak to a Nurse please?”

    2. Ann, Well thank you. What a nice thing to say and you know more than a few things about blogging. Your point about health blogging is excellent. It is indeed a good idea to think about potential discrimination when divulging personal information about one’s health online. Thank you for that excellent tip, Ann.

  5. What great advice–wish I’d had advice like this when I began. Many of these things I learned along the way. Some stuff-such as identifying audience and why I blog-has actually shifted slightly for me. I suspect my reasons for blogging will continue to change.
    As always you are a valuable, knowledgeable model of blogging for me!

    1. CC, Blogging is all about learning as you go. And there is lots of evolving that goes on too, at least there has been for me. Thank you for reading and for the kind words.

  6. Images has always been a big one for me! I try to take a lot of photos so I have a good one or two to share. Social media and other blogs are a great way to connect with other people writing/blogging in your space. I have made a lot of great connections and friendships over the years from blogging that I value deeply.

    1. Mandi, I’ve made some great connections, too, and that’s the best thing about blogging as far as I’m concerned. Images are a great addition to any blog post, if a person wishes to include them of course. Thanks for reading and sharing.

  7. Wonderful post, Nancy! I love all your tips and agree 100% with all of them. My favorite is Number 17, I think. It’s so important to share. I try to share the good work of other writers as much as I can. It’s so vital that we maintain a sense of community.

    One aspect I would add that’s related to Number 17 is to view fellow bloggers as comrades, not competition. There is room in the universe for many, many voices.

    1. Beth, Thank you for reading my tips and for adding yours. I agree that sharing is vital. I never view other bloggers as competition. I hadn’t even thought about that. Comrades, that’s how I see others who blog because there can never be too many voices and each one is unique and very much needed. Thanks for sharing.

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